A warrior is never under siege. To be under siege implies that one has personal possessions that could be blockaded. A warrior has nothing in the world except his impeccability, and impeccability cannot be threatened. -Carlos Castaneda
True warriors aren't controlled by alcohol, drugs, and money. True warriors see when they are under the control of a person who does nothing but destroy all of the people's lives around them. True warriors recognize that they are in a very bad situation and extracate themselves before the hole gets deeper. What are you doing with him? Don't you remember all of the horror he has caused you? Stop and think about how much he is asking you to give up for him and for money. Are you willing to sacrifice it all? We love you Bridget...with no alterior motive. YOU ARE UNDER HIS SPELL. GET OUT.