Published on 05.02.11

Someone emailed this to me on Facebook and beware world, ANY TIME you email me feedback, ANYWHERE it's considered a Letter to the Pheditors. This is her exact email with names removed and my response. Read it and weep...with laughter.

Why?

Ok why did you force and ask My Boyfriend to say those things to you? He didn't mean them. In any of your photos. He's told me. You knew he had someone he really loved. Why would you do that? Why would you endanger the relationship of another person? You as well as any other girl knows it makes other girls mad when their guy says something to another girl. I have done nothing to you and yet you have upset this relationship that me and him have been trying to work out. You had no reason to do this to me.

Sincerely,
Insecure Young Girlfriend

Hi Insecure,

I really don't know what to say to you. The only thing I can say is that I'm a public figure online. I have no control when people comment on pictures of me--nor to I have the ability to "force" anyone to do so.

You shouldn't see me as a threat, I'm not trying to upset your relationship or do anything to you personally. You shouldn't let his comments about me upset you any more than if I was a model or actress or any other public figure.

He's a man. He can still love you and think other women are attractive. The sooner you understand this--the sooner you'll go from being a girl to a woman.

I wish you and your Boyfriend all the best & encourage you to work on your self-esteem.

Much love,
Bridge